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Change Your Story & Free Your Mind

  Change Your Story & Free Your Mind Many personal development experts state that  the reality we’re living in today is largely a result of our past thoughts and behaviours. Does your general attitude and situations in life correlate with past thoughts and behaviour?  Do you become what you think? The jury is out on just how much of our thoughts and actions correlate with our current reality. After all, even the happiest, most peaceful people in life experience challenging circumstances, loss, and genuine struggle. However, exploring the correlation of our thoughts, attitudes, beliefs, and actions against our current life situation may not be a bad idea. If you find yourself happy and peaceful most of the time, why is this? If you’re not thrilled with your life in various areas, why do you think that is? Perhaps it’s time to do a little digging into your  thought life  to see if the  types of thoughts  you’re thinking are influencing ...

Life’s meaninglessness - "vanity"

 Life’s meaninglessness - "vanity"  IN THE BIBLE, the Book of Ecclesiastes is one of the most philosophical books. As part of Wisdom Literature, it explores deep existential questions about life’s meaning, happiness, and human existence. The author reflects on the meaninglessness of life, or "vanity," and systematically examines work, pleasure, wisdom, and wealth, concluding that all are transient and unsatisfying. "Vanity of vanities! All is vanity!". Life, apart from God, is empty. However, the book does not promote despair but rather an acceptance of life’s uncertainties while encouraging joy in simple blessings and trust in God’s plan. Know insights into life and how to live wisely. 1. Life is Temporary and Fleeting "There is a time for everything and a season for every activity under the heavens." Change is inevitable; no human effort can alter life’s natural cycles. Accepting this truth helps one live without undue attachment to transi...

Winning Self-confidence

  Winning  Self-confidence How are you supposed to be confident about something when you have nothing to feel optimistic about? Like, how are you supposed to be confident at your new job if you’ve never done this type of work before? Or how are you supposed to be  confident in social situations  when no one has ever liked you before? Or how are you supposed to be confident  in your relationship  when you’ve never been in a  successful relationship  before? On the surface, confidence appears to be an area where the rich get richer and the poor stay the fucking losers they are. After all, if you’ve never experienced much social acceptance, and you lack confidence around new people, then that lack of confidence will make people think you’re clingy and weird and not accept you. The same deal goes for relationships. No confidence in intimacy will lead to  bad breakups  and awkward phone calls, and emergency Ben and Jerry’s runs at t...