STRESS

 STRESS

Stress affects us all. You may notice symptoms of stress when disciplining your kids, during busy times at work, when managing your finances, or when coping with a challenging relationship. Stress is everywhere. And while a little stress is OK -- some stress is actually beneficial -- too much stress can wear you down and make you sick, both mentally and physically.

The first step to controlling stress is knowing its symptoms. But recognizing stress symptoms may be harder than you think. Most of us are so used to being stressed that we often don't know we are stressed until we are at the breaking point.

What Is Stress?

Stress is the body's reaction to harmful situations -- whether they're real or perceived. When you feel threatened, a chemical reaction occurs in your body that allows you to act in a way to prevent injury. This reaction is known as "fight-or-flight" or the stress response. During the stress response, your heart rate increases, breathing quickens, muscles tighten, and blood pressure rises. You've gotten ready to act. It is how you protect yourself.

Stress means different things to different people. What causes stress in one person may be of little concern to another. Some people are better able to handle stress than others. And not all stress is bad. In small doses, stress can help you accomplish tasks and prevent you from getting hurt. For example, stress is what gets you to slam on the brakes to avoid hitting the car in front of you. That's a good thing.

Our bodies are designed to handle small doses of stress. But, we need to be equipped to handle long-term, chronic stress with ill consequences.

What Are the Symptoms of Stress?

Stress can affect all parts of your life, including your emotions, behaviors, thinking ability, and physical health. No part of the body is immune. But, because people handle stress differently, symptoms of stress can vary. Symptoms can be vague and may be the same as those caused by medical conditions. So it is important to discuss them with your doctor. You may have any of the following symptoms of stress.

Emotional symptoms of stress include:

"             Becoming easily agitated, frustrated, and moody

"             Feeling overwhelmed, as if you are losing control or need to take control

"             Having a hard time relaxing and quieting your mind

"             Feeling bad about yourself (low self-esteem) and feeling lonely, worthless, and depressed

"             Avoiding others Physical symptoms of stress:

"             Low energy

"             Headaches

"             Upset stomach, including diarrhea, constipation, and nausea

"             Aches, pains, and tense muscles

"             Chest pain and rapid heartbeat

"             Insomnia

"             Frequent colds and infections

"             Loss of sexual desire and ability

"             Nervousness and shaking, ringing in the ears, and cold or sweaty hands and feet

"             Dry mouth and a hard time swallowing

"             Clenched jaw and grinding teeth

Cognitive symptoms of stress include:

"             Constant worrying

"             Racing thoughts

"             Forgetfulness and disorganization

"             Inability to focus

"             Poor judgment

"             Being pessimistic or seeing only the negative side

Behavioral symptoms of stress include:

"             Changes in appetite -- either not eating or eating too much

"             Procrastinating and avoiding responsibilities

"             More use of alcohol, drugs, or cigarettes

"             Having more nervous behaviours, such as nail biting, fidgeting, and pacing

What Are the Consequences of Long-Term Stress?

A little stress now and then is not something to be concerned about. But ongoing, chronic stress can cause or worsen many serious health problems, including:

"             Mental health problems, such as depression, anxiety, and personality disorders

"             Cardiovascular disease, including heart disease, high blood pressure, abnormal heart rhythms, heart attacks, and strokes

"             Obesity and other eating disorders

"             Menstrual problems

"             Sexual dysfunction, such as impotence and premature ejaculation in men and loss of sexual desire in men and women

"             Skin and hair problems, such as acne, psoriasis, and eczema, and permanent hair loss

"             Gastrointestinal problems, such as GERD, gastritis, ulcerative colitis, and irritable colon

Help Is Available for Stress

Stress is a part of life. What matters most is how you handle it. The best thing you can do to prevent stress overload and the health consequences that come with it is to know your stress symptoms.

If you or a loved one is feeling overwhelmed by stress, talk to your doctor. Many symptoms of stress can also be signs of other health problems. Your doctor can evaluate your symptoms and rule out other conditions. If stress is to blame, your doctor can recommend a therapist or counsellor to help you better handle your stress.